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    Re: Lost all communication with children

    I feel bad for your predicament. Your ex wife sounds very vindictive. I'm curious as to what the situation was that would make her go to such lengths to do this to you. I know everyone is different,...
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    Re: Phyllis Diller Jokes Still Making Us Laugh

    Ha some of those are pretty funny. "A smile is a curve that sets everything straight" is my favorite. Thanks for the post!
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    Re: he has been gone for 1 month 1day

    I'm not an expert in this field but I know from my own personality that being spit on is one of the lowest insults I could imagine. You say you have anger issues and are trying to work on that so...
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    Re: Separation from my wife

    All I have to say Smitty is her desire to keep the money and bills separate to me is NOT an indicator that divorce is well on its way. In my case it was my wife's simple desire to protect herself...
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    Re: Understanding Depression

    Never thought it would happen to me. When it did, BOOM! I keep a journal and some of the things I wrote were messed up. I now understand what it's like for people in that situation whereas I used to...
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    Re: Does she like you?

    It's like magnetism. You can just feel it. I think it's rare for someone to have that kind of feeling and be totally wrong.
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    Re: Staying With a Cheating Partner

    Tough question. I love my wife so much so it would be impossible to simple leave her. I really can't imagine her doing that to me. But if she did, I would be so hurt, but not enough to make me leave...
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    Re: If Your Child told you he/she was gay....

    I wouldn't endorse it but I would certainly support my kids at all costs. Certainly.
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    Re: Hostile Silence or Arguing It Out?

    hostile silence.
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    Re: My Trip To The Waterslides

    you're very welcome. It's nice to be able to laugh and joke again.
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    Re: 5 day's since she left after 13 yrs.

    I think you're beating yourself up and thinking yourself into a spiral. Of course you did good things and a lot of things right. But you said your wife has some traumatic things going on. Maybe that...
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    Re: What brought you joy today?

    The fact that I am in a recovery program and no longer use.
  13. Thread: Dying of Shame

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    Re: Dying of Shame

    :lol: good one!
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    My Trip To The Waterslides

    May as well share this. About ten years ago I took my four year old to the waterslides. We had a great time. On the last walk up the long winding ramp/staircase there were some young girls behind us...
  15. Thread: Punography

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    Re: Punography

    ha some of those are pretty good.
  16. Thread: The Dentist

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    Re: The Dentist

    ohhh nasty hahaha!!
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    Re: Suggestions for getting her to sleep alone?

    Personally I think it's proper for a child to sleep with their parents for as long as they feel they need to or even want to. My youngest still sleeps with my wife and with me before we separated. If...
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    Re: seperated(my wife of 13 yrs left)

    I don't know that she actually has her mind set on permanently leaving you. I say that because that is exactly what I was saying to myself and to a couple of other people when my wife asked me to...
  19. Thread: Managing Anger

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    Re: Managing Anger

    I had anger issues not long ago. A lot of yelling and a few times breaking things. Never got violent with people though. But since starting my recovery from my addiction I have learned that anger in...
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    Re: My Trip To The Store

    Ha too funny :)
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    Re: seperated(my wife of 13 yrs left)

    That's good you still have the ability to laugh. That's important. It sounds like all you can do is give her time alone. It's a positive that feels the way about your fatherhood as she does. Just...
  22. Thread: Confused...

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    Re: Confused...

    Hi JJHowler. I'm a recovering addict actively working the NA program. I'm just wondering if maybe your husband relapsed and is now seeking what they call a geographic escape. Maybe he's angry with...
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    Re: follow up to my wife of 13 years left.

    Sorry to hear that news D & C. My situation hasn't gotten to that point yet and I hope it never does, but from talking with my separated wife and from what I have learned in my NA program, you must...
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    Re: my wife of 13 years left today.

    sorry to hear what you're going through there D & C. I hope you will be able to get through it and maybe even become a stronger person because of it. I'm on month three of my separation (wife asked...
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    Re: Life In Limbo Totally Sucks

    Thanks Luba! Yes I need to learn to be patient. I want everything to happen all at once right away. But I'm starting to realize everything takes time. Like when I'm at work and my boss hands me a new...
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    Re: Life In Limbo Totally Sucks

    My children are 15, 12 and 7. All boys. And oddly enough all left-handed. The wife and I are both right-handed. No they don't really know what's going on. I told my middle son that I go to NA...
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    Life In Limbo Totally Sucks

    I'm glad I found this website. I always knew people went through separations and such, but until it happened to me three months ago I had no real clue how devastating they can be. My story is rather...
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    Re: How do I get the love of my life back?

    Sorry I don't have any real input for you but I just have to say it scared me how identical our issues and situations are.
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