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    Free at last

    Hello All,
    I just found this forum this evening and haven't had the time to peruse this forum but it looks very interesting. So why not introduce myself.
    I'm recently divorced from a man I thought I knew but found out many disgusting secrets while seperated. I'm mad at myself for not seeing some of it sooner. For one I found out he searches a lot of porn and not normal porn. Now I'm not a prude by any means but granny porn, gay porn, tranny's, are you serious! I could go into more detail but you get the picture. Also while seperated he kept telling me he wanted to work things out, go to counseling while at the same time searching for BBW woman on Craigslist, on-line dating sites and whatforth.
    It wasn't my business anymore and after seeing that I knew we would never get back together so why even bring it up. My point being he was attempting to cheat even though seperated but not divorced while "trying" to work things out. Yet everything was supposedly my fault. I'm not bitter in the least and actually quite relieved. I know there is two sides to every story and I'm sure he has his side as well. I'm sure everyone reading these forums know that too, but it seems like a nice place to vent anyway. Thank you for that.
    I'm not looking for sympathy at all, it's not my style. I'm just glad to be free and the happiest I've been in a very long time.

    Lesson learned and my glass is always half full.

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    Re: Free at last

    Welcome to our wonderful home away from home Stillafloat. You sound like a much better person in the end and I am glad. You may vent all you like. No one here is judgmental. We have all gone through something that brought us here and it really is a nice place to fall when you need a soft landing. Hope you find the time to look around and stay and get to know us. We sure would like to get to know you.
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    Re: Free at last

    Welcome! A half full glass is always better than one half empty.
    I'm so much cooler online...

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    Re: Free at last

    Sometimes people just aren't right for each other, and he's obviously not right for you. On to better things!

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    Re: Free at last

    Quote Originally Posted by Railyn View Post
    Sometimes people just aren't right for each other, and he's obviously not right for you. On to better things!

    You know what, that's exactly right. You can't help who you fall in love with and there were some good times but over the years he became more and more controlling, in a suttle way which was even worse and using the kids as pawns and now it looks like he's critisizing me behind my back to friends. These were our friends not his. I wish he wouldn't put them in the middle of it like he did our kids but I imagine that happens more often than not. Friends and family shouldn't have to pick sides. Why can't some people just grow up and realize that some couples just grow apart. He's always been a but immature but the last fews years it's gotten much worse. Your right, he just wasn't right for me. I'll just leave it at that.

    I'm looking for a new man in my life. A good one that doesn't always put himself first. I know there's good men out there. It feels so good to fall in love, I know, I'm going to be very happy. I already am!

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    Re: Free at last

    Ya it's too bad that love is an emotional state rather than a logical one, it would save us so much heartbreak.

    It does sound like you're much better off stillafloat, congratulations. Unfortunately it seems in many cases that both parties can't be adult enough to separate amicably which is likely part of the reason for the torment that we sometimes put each other through; another instance where logic takes a back seat to emotion.

    You do sound like you're in a good place so good luck in your search for love.
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