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    Re: What Women Look For In a Mate

    Women are not more complicated than men. I guess that because we have the experience of being a "man" or a "woman", that we mistakenly assume that the others of the same gender are similar to us. And then by comparison all the different women / men seem to be complex, because we do notice the differences between them. And sometimes learn the hard way.
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    Re: What Women Look For In a Mate

    Men and women just need to communicate more, especially if they are in a relationship.
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    That is so true. Without communication it simply cannot work.

    It is 3.40 AM here, I need to go to bed. Thanks for the company and making me think about things, TKD .
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    Enjoyed the company. Good night Vautrin.
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    My my...look who's been busy. Looks like I need to check in here more often...sheesh.

    Quote Originally Posted by TKDLady View Post
    I didn't make it impossible because then I wouldn't ever get anyone!! I like men and I want to enjoy their company. As for WDH and his 3 or 4 things I think maybe I should just let sleeping dogs lie on that one!
    Yes you should and yet you don't.

    Quote Originally Posted by Vautrin View Post
    He wants a woman that brings him his beer
    He wants a woman that brings him his beer
    He wants a woman that brings him his beer
    He wants a woman that brings him his beer

    I guess it is fairly complete now
    I see nothing wrong with that list. Simple and expectations are clear.

    Quote Originally Posted by TKDLady View Post
    Ha Ha Ha. I can't wait until he gets on and sees this. You could have added mows his lawn, does his laundry, cooks his meals, blah blah blah .... Hi WDH, Love ya!!!!
    Laundry and cooking...more clear expectations....

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    Ha Ha. He won't care. I did send him an email telling him we were picking on him. I figure he won't care about that either!!!
    I LOL'ed while having dinner out with my daughter.

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    He probably does not mind you picking on him. Me, however, is a different matter.
    It's all good. But you know what they say about payback.

    Quote Originally Posted by TKDLady View Post
    Well since I don't know how a man's mind works real well I will have to take your word for it. Men say women are complicated but I think it is just as complicated the other way around.
    All chicks are the same. I proved that yesterday when my daughter and I went to the grocery store together.
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    Quote Originally Posted by waydownhere View Post
    My my...look who's been busy. Looks like I need to check in here more often...sheesh.
    And you still haven't got your beer.
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    No kidding....no worries....

    Next week, when she's here to visit...I will just have LAY DOWN THE LAW!

    It will be HWSBO from now on! (or whatever that acronym is).
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    That would be HWMBO (He Who Must Be Obeyed)
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    Yeah thats the one. You listenin' TKD?

    I'm off go find that pretty little waitress now who will happily serve me as many beer's as I want.
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    Quote Originally Posted by waydownhere View Post
    Yeah thats the one. You listenin' TKD?

    I'm off go find that pretty little waitress now who will happily serve me as many beer's as I want.
    Oh I am listening!!!!! Did you find that pretty little waitress? Hope you got her name cuz she is the one who will be serving you a beer next week too!!!
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    I did. Her name was Danielle and she brought me all the beers I wanted with a big smile. And she never interrupted while the game was on. Darn near prefect...now if I could only get that sort of service at home. <sigh>

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    She was only nice because she wanted that big ol' tip you were going to give her for being flirty!!!! If you were paying me I would bring you all the beers you wanted with a big smile too.
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    Re: What Women Look For In a Mate

    Okay.. so here it goes.. don't be mad men..
    I want someone who is kind, intelligent, sense of humor a must, takes care of himself physically, however health issues are no big deal to me, good teeth really help, and honest. Laughing is so sexy that I just can't be with anyone whom does not have a sense of humor.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sbr View Post
    Okay.. so here it goes.. don't be mad men..
    I want someone who is kind, intelligent, sense of humor a must, takes care of himself physically, however health issues are no big deal to me, good teeth really help, and honest. Laughing is so sexy that I just can't be with anyone whom does not have a sense of humor.
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    Re: What Women Look For In a Mate

    I don't know what I am looking for... I have never been married, and haven't been in a relationship in 20 years. I guess I am old fashioned and believe in open communication and real friendship first. I would love to get married.... But to be blunt and honest.

    Todays women scare the hell out of me !!

    About 5 months ago I answered a ad a women in my area had in the classified's, just for some companionship... And I told her I was looking for a lady to wine and dine.

    She turned out to be a retired Marine, and a expert in hand to hand combat and small arms !! She's been married and divorced 5 times, and looking for number 6. She told me she has killed men with her bare hands, and expected me to take her bar hopping and to the Casino on the weekends. I am a recovered alcoholic !!

    I RAN, AND DIDN'T LOOK BACK !!

    Can we add WORST 1st DATES stories to this thread ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alienated View Post

    Can we add WORST 1st DATES stories to this thread ?
    That's a great idea for a thread!!!

    I don't know what I want in a mate either. Maybe that's why I'm now divorced twice. LOL I know I'm attracted to men who can make me laugh. Men who can do things with their (preferably large) hands. Men who are gentlemen and open doors and argue when I pick up the tab. A man whom I feel safe with, that I know if someone kicked the door in at 3 am they're going to protect me and not hide in the closet. Men who is politically aware and not afraid to voice his opinion, even if his is the only one. A man who works hard and plays hard. A man who, when he finds someone he loves, loves that person with every fiber of his being.

    And, if he could look like Alexander Skarsgard that would be great too.
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    Yikes. The only thing that was missing on that disaster date was the preacher who would also double as a sheriff.

    No disaster dates for me. But I have not really dated much ...
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    Lol.....

    Alienated is talking about women scaring the hell out of him, and Ayla is talking about men hiding in the closet, my does time change! Or have times not changed yet truth's exposed? Something to think about!

    I love this quote......

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    [QUOTE=BridgieBridge;158204]Lol.....

    Alienated is talking about women scaring the hell out of him, and Ayla is talking about men hiding in the closet, my does time change! Or have times not changed yet truth's exposed? Something to think about!



    I can answer and sum up both views in just 2 words......

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    Quote Originally Posted by BridgieBridge View Post
    Lol.....

    Alienated is talking about women scaring the hell out of him, and Ayla is talking about men hiding in the closet, my does time change! Or have times not changed yet truth's exposed? Something to think about!

    I love this quote......

    We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly. -Sam Keen
    That is a great quote!

    Women definitely are more assertive now then they have been in the past, in my opinion. Some men are perfectly fine to sit back and let the woman take the dominate role. Some are terrified by it. Some men have just as dominate a personality. I guess it's getting harder to find that balance.
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    Thanks, i think so too!

    I think ya hit the nail on the head, the balance of the world is off!
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    Re: What Women Look For In a Mate

    gone are the days when women looks for mate for security as they themselves are excelling in careers, ...

    women wants someone to talk to, comfort with and all in the name of love.
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