i have always been the dumper. but i must admit i feel bad too. i mean, there is a reason why i was with the guy in the beginning. yet, sometimes, people grow apart. when you can no longer connect with the person, it is time to move on.

just remind yourself of the reason why you left the relationship in the first place. then, be busy. also, do the things you've always wanted to do but you have set aside because of the previous relationship. and, enjoy being alone- pamper yourself.